Money Savers and Makers for the Stay at Home Mom

 
As a stay at home I know that I contribute to our family.  Even though I do not bring home a paycheck there are still ways that I contribute to our finances.  

Recently my sister in law posted on her facebook page the amount of money that she and her husband spend each year on day care alone for their children and it absolutely blew my mind.  With two children in daycare full time and one through the summer they spend over $14,000.00 each year. 

Anyway, this got me to thinking about how much money that my husband and I have saved over the years because I have been able to be a stay at home mom.  And I started thinking of other ways we as stay at home mom's can save or make our family some money?

Here is what I came up with.  This list is actually mostly all things I do.  I am sure there are others that I just haven't thought of but here it is.

  • Rummage Sale - When you declutter your home have a rummage sale with the items that you no longer love.
  • Consignment - Consign your clothes and household items.
  • Limit Driving -  I stay home most days of the week.  On my errand day I plan my trip so that I am making a circle and working my way back home so that I am not driving back and forth all of the time.  I do not make unneccesary trips to town just because and when I need to go to a store or somewhere that is a ways off I wait until I have several things I need to do in that area of town before I go.
  • DIY - I make my own laundry detergent, softner, dryer sheets, window cleaner, all purpose cleaners and toilet and shower cleaners.
  • Conserve - Keep things unplugged when not in use.  Turn off light switches.  Limit the amount of water used when washing clothes, take shorter showers, etc...
  • Downgrade - My husband and I switched to a pre-paid cell phone a year ago and it was one of the best thinga we have done to help with our finances.  We did not have smart phones but were paying nearly $95 per month for our 2 phones.  Now we simply add minutes when needed.  For our phones now I pay about $15 per month average and we have more than enough talk/text time.
  • Coupon - I am not talking extreme couponing but saving 50 cents off a tube of toothpaste or 25 cents off of your dish soap adds up over time.
  • Price Match - Watch your Sunday paper.  Walmart will price match even store brand items.
  • Shop Sales - Only buy certain items like the more expensive ones when they are on sale and stock up.
  • Goodwill or Thrift Stores - Most of my clothes in my closet come from either Goodwill or they are hand-me-downs.  Very few articles of my clothing have I bought at a Department store and even the few of those that I have I got when they were on sale or clearance.
  • Clothes Swap - I do not do this but wish I had someone close that wore my same size clothing that I could do this with.  I think it would be fun! 
  • Meal Planning - This is a biggie!  Plan your meals, make your grocery list from your menu and cook at home.  Eating out costs a LOT - so limit eating out and cook at home. 
  • Pre Packaged Items are a NO NO - I am not saying that I never buy these things but I will say that I rarely buy them.  I tell my kids often (and my husband) that I bought stuff to cook.  :)  Pre packaged cookies, or already made snacks or foods can really make your grocery bill high (I know from experience).  Now I bake my own cookies or sweets at home.  I buy one bag of cereal every 2 weeks for my boys for breakfast after that is gone they have to eat homemade pancakes, gravy and biscuits, eggs or something else less expensive that I can make myself.  
  • Offer services - If you have a special talent or something you love to do then why not get paid for it?  I have friends who decorate cakes, make homemade bags, diaper bags, purses, etc..., cater parties, make and sell candles, babysit and the list could go on and on.  The best part is they do this while tending to their home and children.
  • Recycle - currently I save my aluminum pop cans. 
None of these items alone will make or save you a ton of money but when you put these together and do them regularly they really will make a difference in your budget.

If you are a stay at home mom, what are some ways that you save or make money to help with your families finances?

To Read Part 2, My Readers Suggestions click here.


    Staying Attracted to Holiness and Purity

    This subject for me is one that is near and dear to my heart.  It is more of a concern than many of these other prayers that we have covered.  Why?  Because I know from experience how easy it is to get off the right path and to walk down the wrong one at full speed. 

    I want different for my children.  I want them to not make the same mistakes that I made.  I know that children will mess up and make mistakes but we teach our children in ways that neither my husband or myself were taught when we were growing up. 

    One thing that this chapter makes me think of right off is how I am always "preaching" to my boys how they are different.  In a good way.  In a way that the Bible tells us we are supposed to be. 

    1 Peter 2:9 But ye are a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into his marvellous light;

    (a peculiar people - special people, different people)

    Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

    John 15:19 If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.

    We are to be lights shining in darkness.  We are to be the leaders and I know that this is hard task for any of us but especially for children.  It is hard to be the different one in a crowd.  It is hard to say no when all of your other friends are doing something (of course then we may need to talk about the kind of friends our children keep).  My boys are good kids, who know what the Bible says, who know to do right but they are still young men of God who are living in this sinful world and they have to make choices everyday.  They are targets for the devil which is why we must clothe ourselves and our children in the armor of God.

    Ephesians 6:10 - 17  Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.

    Will they mess up and choose wrongly?  I pray not.  We must teach our children, model the correct behavior for them and PRAY for them to stand out and stay attracted to holiness and purity.  So I encourage you to pray for your children to stand out and be different.  Pray for godly friends for them so that they have others of their own age to help encourage and support them. 

    Proverbs 20:11  Even a child is known by his acts, whether [or not] what he does is pure and right.

    -------------------------------------------------------------------------

    I also want to announce the winner of my Give Away for a copy of The Purposeful Mom's newly released eBook - God's Word in my Heart. The winner was picked at random through the website random.org. Thank you to the ones that entered and the winner is my sweet friend: Dee I will be sending your email info to Jenn at the Purposeful Mom and she will email you the link to download her book. Again, thank you for entering.


    God's Word in my Heart eBook

    Don't forget to order your download copy of The Purposeful Mom's new eBook titled "God's Word in my Heart:  A Scripture Learning Guide with Memory Verses!"

    Help your children hide God's Word in their young hearts and learn Scripture alongside them with God's Word in My Heart: A Scripture Learning Guide with Memory Verses!

    To purchase the book, all you have to do is click the picture below and you will be directed to a page where you can make your purchase.


    www.thepurposefulmom.com


    This eBook includes:

    • Ideas for teaching Scripture to your children, from the baby on up
    • List of Songs and other Go-Alongs for learning Scripture
    • List of specific songs that go with the memory verses
    • Printable Scripture memory verses for use at home, school or church
      • ABC Memory Verses
      • Verses on Sin and Salvation
    There are three versions of God's Word in My Heart available:
    • KJV (King James Version)
    • NASB (New American Standard)
    • Variety (ESV, NIV 1984, NASB, NKJV
    In this downloadable book are plenty of fun and meaningful ideas for teaching your children Scripture at all ages and stages, ABC Bible memory verses and verses about God's plan of salvation. 

    The purchase price is only $3.99

    Also, I am doing a Give Away of the book.  Click here to be taken to the post containing the information.  Entries for the Give Away are accepted until 11:59 pm eastern time on Monday, February 18th!

    Bible Study Notebook

    Today I am finishing up my series on Bible Study Organization. 

    I use a one subject notebook (which stays in my Bible Study Basket) for my daily Bible study. This is nothing special, just a simple notebook where I record my daily scripture reading and thoughts.  

    Note:  I only use this when I am actively involved in an actual "Bible Study".   I do not use this on a daily basis when I am simply reading my Bible.  


    I use the S.O.A.P. method for my Bible study.  I learned about this from the Good Morning Girls Bible Study Group that I am a part of.  I am currently leading my third online Bible study through Good Morning Girls.  
       
    It really is an easy method to use that in my opinion helps you to get a great deal out of your Bible reading.  Here is a sample of one of my pages from the first Bible study I did using S.O.A.P.



    I know that all of these posts make it seem like I have a ton of stuff that I tote around my house from place to place but honestly I don't.  I have my one big binder and then my basket which holds everything else. 


    I hope you have enjoyed reading about how I keep my Bible study, devotion and prayer time organized.

    Now just find a nice quiet place to sit with your coffee and enjoy the blessing of having a neat and organized Bible Study.

    Do you have any ideas to share of how you organize yours?

    -------------------------------------------------------------------------
    Read my posts on Bible Study/Prayer Organization here:







    God's Word in my Heart eBook and A Give Away

    My friend and fellow blogger Jenn at The Purposeful Mom has a new eBook being released today that is full of ideas to use with your children to help them (and you) memorize scripture. 

    I received an advance copy of the eBook to review some time back and it is packed full of great ideas for learning scripture that you could use with your own children, a Sunday school class, etc. 

    Jenn truly has poured her heart into this eBook with the hope and prayer that it will encourage you to spend more time in God's Word yourself and especially with your children. 

    ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Help your children hide God's Word in their young hearts and learn Scripture alongside them with God's Word in My Heart: A Scripture Learning Guide with Memory Verses!

    To purchase the book, all you have to do is click the picture below and you will be directed to a page where you can make your purchase. 

     
     
    This eBook includes:

    • Ideas for teaching Scripture to your children, from the baby on up
    • List of Songs and other Go-Alongs for learning Scripture
    • List of specific songs that go with the memory verses
    • Printable Scripture memory verses for use at home, school or church
      • ABC Memory Verses
      • Verses on Sin and Salvation
    There are three versions of God's Word in My Heart available:
    • KJV (King James Version)
    • NASB (New American Standard)
    • Variety (ESV, NIV 1984, NASB, NKJV
    In this downloadable book are plenty of fun and meaningful ideas for teaching your children Scripture at all ages and stages, ABC Bible memory verses and verses about God's plan of salvation. 
    The book is on sale for one day only - February 14th, 2013 for $1.99. 

    After that the price will be $3.99.

    -----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Now for the Give Away!  The Give Away will start at midnight on Thursday, February 14th and will run for 4 days until Monday, February 18th.  It will close at 11:59 pm eastern time on Monday.  I will announce the winner on my blog and contact you through email on Tuesday, February 19th!

    I am making this simple for you.  All you have to do is leave a comment at the end of this post that includes the following:  1) Your favorite Bible Verse and 2) Your email address so that if you are the winner I will be able to contact you. 

    I will be using www.random.org to pick the comment.  First comment in (with Bible verse and email) will be number one and so on.  Random.org will pick a number from the total number of comments left for me - so it will be totally fair and of course random. 

    Remember, included in your comment must be your favorite Bible verse and your email address!

    **If you buy the book and are chosen as the winner of this Give Away, Jenn from The Purposeful Mom will refund your purchase price to you.**

    Bible Verse Memorization

    Today I wanted to take a moment to share with you the current method we are using to help us memorize bible verses.

    I use 3x5 index cards to write the verses on but this new system keeps them better organized and also helps us memorize more because it uses a lot of repetition.




    We now use the Charlotte Mason System for sorting and storing all of those index cards. If you click on the link above it will show you exactly what I am talking about. This link has a video on "how to", free printables, a verses list and written instructions on the system.


    I place the note cards with Bible verses in various places that we see often throughout the house.  This one is hanging on the bulletin board in my kitchen.  I also have them hanging on bathroom mirrors.  As we go through out our days, the Word of God is right there in front of us to read over, quote and practice. 


    You could adapt this system any way that you like or there are many other great methods out there to help you with your scripture memorization. 

    -----------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Using Note Cards is just one of the many ways The Purposeful Mom shares about in her new eBook that is about to be released.

    Please Join me tomorrow (February 14, 2013 at 12:00 am - eastern time) for a "Give Away" of my friend and fellow bloggers eBook.  Jenn from The Purposeful Mom is releasing her new ebook on Scripture Memorization and I am doing a "Give Away" on my blog. 






    Learning to Speak Life - Praying for our Children

    Did you know that your words are powerful?  I mean really, did you know that in the words that you speak there is power

    The Bible says in Proverbs 18:21 that death and life are in the power of our tongues. 

    What does that mean exactly?  Well I look at it like this...

    If you are constantly told as a child that you can do or achieve anything you set your mind to - You believe it.  If you are told that you are great - You believe it.  If you are told that the sky is the limit and nothing is impossible for you to do or be when you grow up - You believe it.

    On the other hand...

    If you are told as a child that you are not good at or for anything - You believe it.  If you are told you are worthless and that you will never amount to anything - You believe it.  If you are told that you will never have enough, never get ahead and always be poor - You believe it.

    Life and Death. 

    God spoke the world into existence.  God spoke life into existence.  God uses His Words to Call into being those things that be not as though they were the Bible says in Romans 4:17.

    Life. 

    You are snared with the words of your lips, you are caught by the speech of your mouth.  Proverbs 6:2  For by your words you will be justified and acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned and sentenced.  Matthew 12:37

    Death.

    The old saying "sticks and stones may break my bones but your words will never hurt me" isn't really a true statement.  I was taught this saying as a child but as an adult I realize that is not totally true.  Yes it is true that words can not physically attack me but the words that are spoken to me can "hurt" me emotionally and spiritually.  Once words are spoken, they are out there FOREVER!  Someone may forgive you for harsh or hurtful words that you spoke to them but they will never forget them.  I know I don't. 

    So my point in all of this is simple.  Your words that you speak to your children, about your children and over your children in prayer are powerful and important.  Make sure they are the right words.  Make sure they are life giving words.

    Also, teach your children the importance of speaking words that are full of love and life and not words that are full of hurt and death about themselves and to others.
    -------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Matthew 12:34  You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of.

    Matthew 12:35 A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in him, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in him.

    Proverbs 13:3 Those who guard their lips preserve their lives,
    but those who speak rashly will come to ruin.


    Proverbs 16:24 Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.


    Bible Study Binder and Prayer Journal


    Yesterday I did a post about how I now organize my Bible Study essentials - You can read that post by clicking here.  Today, I am showing you my Bible Study/Prayer Binder. I have been using this method for about 7 years now.  I started with a regular one inch 3 ring binder but quickly outgrew that.


    Now I use a Mead 3 ring binder sort of trapper keeper that is much larger.  It keeps all of my papers very neat, well organized and easily accessible.  This binder is also portable just like my Bible Study Basket.


    This is a look on the inside at some of my various tabs.  I have a total of 5 large tabs titled prayer, husband/wife, parenting, inspirational quotes and holidays.  These large dividers are labeled for different areas of prayer or study and I add to these as needed.  When I print things from different blogs, Bible studies or receive different papers from church that I want to hold on to this is where I file them.  

    I also have several smaller tabs (as seen below) behind my larger prayer tab.  I have one for "family issues" which are things that directly affect my immediate family as a whole then I have a divider for each member of my immediate family.  I also have a divider titled "family" and one for "friends" which is where I list prayers or journal about individuals that fall into those categories.  This is where I write things I am praying for concerning a particular person in that group.  

                                         

    I love this system because instead of having many pieces of paper laying around the house they all have a home, which makes me happy - "a place for everything". 

    Do you have any kind of Bible study binder that you use?

    Join me next week as I show you my system for Bible Verse Memorization and my Bible Study Notebook!




    Bible Study Organization

    Today I want to share with you how I organize all of my Bible study tools.  I re-purposed a basket I already had on hand so no expense was involved.

    What makes this nice is that when I am studying my Bible all of my essentials are right at hand and it is portable.  I have my Bible, my notebook, pens and highlighters, post it notes, scripture memorization card holder, prayer card notebook and current books I am reading all together in the same place.  I like the fact that it is portable because in warmer weather I do my Bible study on either my front porch or back deck and this allows me to pick it up and go to a new location with ease.


    As you can probably see from this picture I have two Bibles in my basket.  One is my NKJV and the other is my new NIV Life Application Study Bible that I bought myself with my Christmas money and I LOVE it (thanks Lysa Terkeurst for the recommendation).  We do have other versions of the Bible that I refer to as well.
      
    Soon I will be posting my personal Bible Study Binder and Prayer Journal. 

    What about you?  Do you have some special way that you organize your Bible study essentials?  Do you have a particular place and / or time you do your Bible study?  I would love to hear from you.  

    Identifying God-Given Gifts and Talents


    Identifying God-Given Gifts and Talents

    I didn't write a post for this series last week because I didn't feel like I had gotten back in the groove of writing since the Christmas break but after the past few days I have realized that God was talking to me through some friends and through a message at our church on this very subject and that maybe just maybe I needed to hear this stuff before I wrote my post.  :)

    In Stormie's book on this Chapter she says the following:

    We prayed our children's eyes would be turned away from the world and focused on what God had called them to do.  We prayed that God would open the doors they were to go through and shut all doors that they were not to enter.

    What gifts and talents has God planted in your child?  Every child has them.  They are there, whether you can see them or not.  The Bible says, "Each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that" (1 Corinthians 7:7).  Sometimes it takes prayer to uncover them. 

    When God gives you a glimpse of your child's potential for greatness, love and pray him or her into being that.  The Bible says, "Do you see a man who excels in his work?  He will stand before kings;  he will not stand before unknown men" (Proverbs 22:29).  Pray that your child will develop and excel in the gifts and talents God has given him or her, and let them know they have a unique purpose and significance in this world.

    Each child has special gifts and talents.  We need to pray for them to be identified, revealed, developed, nurtured, and used for God's glory.

    Well, it would be really hard for me to add anything to what Stormie just said in her book for a couple of reasons.  One because she did an excellent job and two because I am still in this stage of prayer for my kids and I see area's that I need to correct in my prayers for them.  I will write more on this at a later time.  So I encourage you to begin right now praying for your children and for the gift and talent that God has placed in them to be revealed so that they can use it for God and His work.

    Instilling the Desire to Learn

    Instilling the Desire to Learn 

    I don't know about you but I do know about my own children and if left on their own to do and keep up with school work and learning in general they would not spend much time doing it (unless it was learning the latest video game - lol).

    Our children learn by example, they learn by their parents involvement and by the prayers that we as parents pray on their behalf. 

    I believe we need to pray for our children first of all to seek knowledge and to have a desire in their heart to learn more.  Hosea 4:6 says that people are destroyed for their lack of knowledge.  I love my children and I want to see them succeed in life not be destroyed.  I also believe we need to show an interest in what they are studying and learning.  We have to ask if they have homework or tests to study for.  We have to help them, to check their work, etc...

    My children thankfully make very good grades and I am so happy that they do.  I put a lot of time, effort and energy in making sure they do their work.  I stay on them about getting stuff done, about studying for tests and so on but their dad and I also pray and have prayed since they were babies that they would have a desire to learn.  A desire to learn about God and a desire to learn in school. 

    I encourage you to begin today to pray for your children to have a desire to learn and gain knowledge whether they are in public school, private school or home schooled.  It is never too late or too early to start praying for our children.

    Having the Motivation for Proper Body Care

    Having the Motivation for Proper Body Care

    First of all in this chapter of Stormie's book she is talking about praying for proper body care.  Mostly what she covers in this chapter is about praying for our children to maintain healthy eating habits and to establish and keep a good exercise routine.  I agree with her whole hearted on this subject but I have one small problem with writing a blog post about it.  I am not a good leader when it comes to this area.  My menu's are based on what I can feed my family that cost the least amount of money and not necessarily what is the healthiest and as of right now I currently am doing zero exercise.  :(  I have gone on healthy eating spurts and I have joined gyms, did couch to 5k programs and exercised at home in the past.  I bought an elliptical and a tread mill once upon a time and various work out video's but to be honest I have never kept up with it. 

    I will say this, I am starting this new year with new goals of working out, I have established a support system with a couple friends and I am going to pray not only for my children but for myself to have the determination and discipline to stick with it. 

    I am taking baby steps with this and I am going to try to establish routines, one at a time starting with exercise and hopefully leading in to some better and more healthy eating habits for myself, my husband and my children.

    Will you pray for us please?  Do you and your family eat healthy and exercise?  Do you have any suggestions or ideas that you think would be helpful to us in this area?

    My 2013 Reading List

    I am first of all making a commitment to continue reading in my Bible Everyday.  The most important book we should all be reading EVERYDAY!

     
    And then when time allows I will be reading from the following list of books throughout the year in 2013. Some of these books are new to me, some I am finishing and some I am reading again. I am planning on reading at least one book per month. 
     
    -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
    In No Particular Order: 
     
     
     
     
    Living Life on Purpose: Discovering God's Best for Your Life  -              By: Lysa TerKeurst
     
    Desperate: Hope for the Mom Who Needs to Breathe   -              By: Sarah Mae, Sally Clarkson
     
     
    I Used to be so Organized
     
     

    ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     
    Books that I am continually reading in and praying through are:
     
     
     
    ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
     
    I am sure there will be additions to this list and I will update accordingly but for now this is my list.  How about you?  What books do you plan on reading in the New Year?  Leave your book choices in the comments sections or if you have made a list on your own blog please leave the link to your blog.  Happy Reading!

    New Year, New Schedule for Devotions

    Sometime back, I did a post on some of our favorite Devotions for our boys.  You can click the link HERE to be taken directly to those posts.  Our newest three books I bought in June of last year (2012) and throughout these last several months we have been skipping around sporadically going through them.  However, with a new year upon us we have decided to start with one and work our way through each book individually spending great time digging into the scriptures listed, answering the questions and discussing each chapter in great depth.  My husband picked out the order we are going to do them in and we are planning on spending 3 months in each book. 
     

    We started with our first book on January 1st and only made it through the first few pages but that is just fine. We took time to have a discussion, ask and answer questions and make notations and highlights in the book. I am super excited to see the changes in my boys and our family as a whole as we work our way through these three great books.
     
    January - March
    The Power Of A Praying Teen
     
    April - June
    A Young Man After God's Own Heart
     
    July - September
    A Young Man's Guide to Making Right Choices
     
     
     
    This leaves out October - December because as of now I am unsure of what devotion or book we are going to use.  I am asking each of you to give me some suggestions.  I have teenage boys and want a book we can use for 3 months worth of study. Please leave any and all suggestions in the comments of this post. I will check the books out and let you all know which one we decide to go with as the time approaches. Thanks for your help!


    Money Saving "Foamy" Soap Refill

    It's a new year and I figured a good way to start it off was by saving us all a little money. 

    I have seen this on pinterest, on a blog I follow and a sweet dear friend also told me about it so I am well aware it is not a new thing but until a few short months ago I was totally unaware you could do this.  I love saving money.  I love making my own cleaners and such.  This is an awesome idea that really does stretch your hard earned dollar.  Try it.  I bet you will love it too.

     
    It is really very simple.  Take an empty foamy hand soap dispenser and add any kind of gel hand soap to it - about 1 " worth.  Then fill the rest up with water.  Replace the lid and shake slightly until the soap and water are mixed and voila you have a full foamy hand soap bottle again. 

    You could actually do this with any type of "foamy" soap.  Dawn has a foamy dish soap or any type of foamy body wash, etc...

    Do you have any thrifty "refill" idea's that you would like to share??